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What Do You Think?

Here are the answers to a very cool survey I did recently with some awesome South Asian teens (huge thanks to HL for her assistance!). If you have opinions on any of the questions, send me an email at Neesha [at] NeeshaMeminger [dot] com -- I want to hear them!

Q. What are some of the most recent books you’ve read for fun? Which ones did you like the most?

Chitra: Twilight – I enjoyed it the most.

Ritu: The Harry Potter series seem the most fun to me but I have not read any other recently.

Pinku: Daughters of the Moon books & Alex Rider books. I liked them both, they were really good.

Nikhal: I don’t read for fun. King Lear

Touria: The Tweneith Wife. I love creative stylistic novels. I also enjoy autobiographies.

Kamil: I liked Tomorrow Never Ends, The Jester, 4th July, Memories of Midnight, Books by Sidney Shewlon and James Patterson

H.S.: 2pac

Q. What are some things that make you want to buy a book?

Chitra: Storyline

Ritu: The description; horror and mystery books are my favorite

Pinku: The story

Nikhal: Music production

Touria: The author

Kamil: Nice themes, real life experiences, more non fictional theme

H.S.: I don’t buy books.

Q. So, what are things that make you put a book down?

Chitra: If its just too serious or confusing

Ritu: Too much detail

Pinku: The author

Nikhal: Title, cover

Touria: When I cannot understand it

Kamil: Hard to understand themes, book that deals with no major topic

H.S.: The cover

Q. How do you feel about blunt sex talk in books for teens?

Chitra: I think it’s disgusting, more porn than literature

Ritu: It’s good to be aware of everything.

Pinku: I don’t mind.

>Nikhal: Not cool

Touria: I feel comfortable

Kamil: No probs

H.S.: Its alright

Q. What about swear words?

Chitra: Depends how much and where

Ritu: It used in everyday lives

Pinku: I don’t mind.

Nikhal: Just not cool

Touria: I feel comfortable as well

Kamil: No probs…either…

H.S.: Its all good

Q. Do you have a favorite genre of books, i.e. fantasy/sci-fi (like Harry Potter, Golden Compass, Lord of the Rings, The Matrix, etc.), romance, action/adventure, drama, comedy? What is it/are they?

Chitra: Twilight series, romance/adventure

Ritu: Harry Potter, horror, romance and mystery

Pinku: Fantasy/sci-fi

Nikhal: Not really but I liked goosebumps

Touria: Autobiography, Shakespeare

Kamil: I like mystery, adventure, thriller and romance

H.S.: Romance, action

Q. Do you feel that there is currently an accurate portrayal of South Asians in books, TV and the media? Why or why not?

Chitra: Not really frequently

Ritu: No. They show them poor and the show India filled with poverty

Pinku: No, not really. They kind of just put them in there like a joke.

Nikhal: Yes, they offer book and media advice

Touria: Only at times. Novels are more accurate than the media because the media is more narrow minded and stereotypical

Kamil: I do not think so because it only shows some cultures of many existing in South Asia

H.S.: . . .

Q. What kind of representation would you like to see of a South Asian teen? What qualities would s/he have?

Chitra: Normal, like any other teenager

Ritu: A smart, educated person because not all South Asians should be portrayed as poor, living in slums.

Pinku: Strong, kind.

Nikhal: Someone who is straight forward, nice and kind.

Touria: South Asian teens (girls): youthful, independent, cultured

Kamil: I like South Asian teen trying to cope in a white American society this quality would be confident, confused and questioning.

H.S.: . . .

Q. What kinds of issues do the South Asian teens in your life face that are not depicted on TV, in films, or in books? What would you like to see addressed?

Chitra: Their family lives, rules, culture

Ritu: Prejudism

Pinku: Peer pressure, religion vs. society

Nikhal: Racism, how South Asians are being blamed for 9/11

Touria: Parent/sibling conflicts; peer pressure

Kamil: I would like to see South Asians influenced by Western lifestyle and struggling to choose the right one.

H.S.: family problems, relationships and etc.

Q. Do you watch Bollywood films? What do you like/not like about them?

Chitra: Not really

Ritu: I did, but I stopped now because they are all the same story.

Pinku: Yes, the stories are the same

Nikhal: Not really. Love

Touria: Yes, I like the songs and some storylines. I do not like that they are becoming similar to Hollywood.

Kamil: No, because I don’t understand Hindi

H.S.: hell no.

Q. How would you compare Bollywood films with Hollywood films?

Chitra: I don’t really watch bollywood movies

Ritu: Hollywood films are more classy with less music, hardly any song breaks.

Pinku: I think Hollywood are better

Nikhal: Bollywood: love; Hollywood: sex, nude and women

Touria: Bollywood videos are mostly about love.

Kamil: Hollywood is better J

H.S.: . . .

Q. How do you feel about dating? Why?

Chitra: I don’t mind, I think it’s fun

Ritu: It should be allowed b/c if the kids are not then they’ll do it behind the parents back.

Pinku: I don’t mind if you really like the person.

Nikhal: I don’t have a problem because it is natural for two people to have a relationship

Touria: Dating is something that is not necessary, but is not bad.

Kamil: Those of the same with less sex scenes

H.S.: Its all good

Q. How do you feel about marriage? Are you for or against arranged marriage—why or why not?

Chitra: Yes, I think love and understanding and definitely knowing the person is important

Ritu: I’m against arranged marriages. I feel marriage should be between two people who love each other, not learn to love each other.

Pinku: It depends on your life experiences.

Nikhal: My parents don’t force much pressure. The thing they say is please don’t mess up, let her be Indian.

Touria: I am 100% for arranged marriage because I feel as if it provides a solid foundation for the future

Kamil: I don’t know…my religion doesn’t allow it

H.S.: Its all good

Q. What are your thoughts on inter-cultural, inter-faith, or inter-racial marriage?

Chitra: I don’t mind them. I actually want to marry out of my culture

Ritu: Its up to whoever you fall in love with

Pinku: I haven’t thought about it much.

Nikhal: I don’t have any thing against it. My aunt is from a Hispanic decent and we are Indian, nothing big.

Touria: They are acceptable but really difficult to go through with

Kamil: I’m neutral because many arranged marriages last longer with love and compassion; with love marriage is out of its magic….to continue

H.S.: Its all good

Q. Who are your main role models (of any background)?

Chitra: J.K. Rowling, Ghandi, my teachers

Ritu: My sister (Indian)

Pinku: My parents.

Nikhal: Not sure

Touria: My mother

Kamil: The Prophet (even though I do not follow him currently I still believe his way is the right way).

H.S.: . . .